Winning, losing and letting go - a perspective!
" Ordinarily, a man gets excited or becomes despondent, not because of the happenings in the outer world, but because his individual contact with them. If anyone dies in the city, it is not a tragedy to me, but when my father dies, it is my calamity. This proves that the death of a man, in itself, cannot bring any disturbance to my mind, unless my mind had already ... projected itself on its relationship to the individual who has died…. The man of perfection can no more feel any joy on receiving what is pleasant nor grieve on receiving what is unpleasant !" - Chinmayananda - while explaining an aspect from "The Gita". " Barriers are often more psychological than physical. There is a reason for trying to find perfection points: defining them enhances the likelihood that we're going to get better, faster. And knowing how far we are from perfection will make them drop even faster. Because the perfection point is not a measure of where we end….just where w